Burying Her Ashes

So we are finally burying my mom's ashes. We will be burying her and my uncle together. I have wanted to do this since the beginning but it was not agreed on by everyone. My mom didn't want to be buried and if she would have died normally then I would have followed her wishes. But since she choose to do it her way, she doesn't have a say. I need to be able to go to the cemetery when I feel the need. Some people hate cemeteries. I find going to a persons grave, being able to place flowers and just sit in peace and quite very therapeutic. I also need this for my daughter. Every time we pass one she always asks if that's where mommom is and if she can go put flowers on it. My daughter is to young to know that my mom was cremated. It's very hard for my mind to understand that let alone a 7 year old. So her and brother will finally be placed together. It was really weird picking out her grave stone. I thought it was crazy the day after she died picking out her flowers for the funeral. You never think that you will be doing that for someone you love. So I picked her her stone and it will have their names and will say "Eternal Siblings". I hope the headstone will be on by Christmas. I think when this is all done it will kinda give some kind of closure. But we shall see......